bigsister – Van Plus Fam

Dear Reagan,

You are an adorable, carefree, and absolutely perfect toddler. You have given up walking for running; you have let us know you are perfectly capable of putting yourself to sleep (although sometimes we can’t help but want to rock you you); and you have learned many new tricks, including that if you point at the TV enough someone will turn it on for you. (A girls deserves 30 minutes of Yo Gabba Gabba a day, right?) We couldn’t be more in love with you, or more amazed at how you are developing into this wonderfully sweet little girl.

On Easter morning, we found out that you–our little then 9 month old– were going to be a big sister. To say it was a BIG surprise would be a understatement. A few days later, we learned the “new nugget” (as we fondly call it) would arrive on Christmas day. A few weeks later, we learned that the new nugget was a boy nugget — your little brother. It will a whirlwind, but we are thrilled — thrilled to meet this baby boy, thrilled to see you become a big sister, and thrilled that God has blessed us with another healthy baby that will transform our perfect family of three into a perfect family of four.

So what do you need to know about being a big sister to a little brother? Well, as a big sister to your Uncle Kevin for going on 25 years, I know a few things. For now, let’s start with this: He will drive you absolutely crazy at times, but I promise you, he will be your fiercest protector, biggest cheerleader, and best confidant. Having a little brother is going to be tough at first — it breaks my heart to think of you having to share your Mommy and Daddy, but at the same time, I know that you will love having a sibling and soon find that he is your best friend.

My sweet Reagan, you are completely oblivious to my growing belly — instead you are focused things a 14 month old should be focused on — your toys (especially puppies, bunnies, and books), your new school (which you finally seem to love), your cool dance moves (you have added a running jig of sorts to the mix), and your growing appetite (final you are a good eater).

While I can’t wait to meet your little brother, I am also cherishing these last 12 weeks. 12 more weeks of a family of three. 12 more weeks of uninterrupted snuggles with you. 12 more weeks of being a duo.

I love you with all my heart, forever and always, no matter what.

Mom